Never listen to what people said
Never listen to one side of stories
Never listen with your ears
But listen and see with your heart
Just follow your gut feeling and justify yourself
Do thing with right attitude and I believe people will appreciate it
Tuesday, July 7, 2015
Monday, July 6, 2015
July
First six months of the year has been passed. It is now JULY.
What was your greatest success in the first six months of the year?
For me, this year definitely a fruitful year. A lot of events happen in this year. Soon, I will be going to enter a new phase of life - get married. This is my dream since I was a kid. For me, the biggest success of a woman is to get married and have few kids, to have own family. I admit I'm a family kind of women and not a strong woman who pursuing in career development.
However, I still make sure that I'm doing my best on my job. I have been working for 3.5 years in my first company. I had leave in Feb and joined my current company. I am grateful that I had passed my probation period one month ago. It is still long journey in learning new knowledge and apply to my job. To be honest, recently has been quite hectic. I hope I can manage well. Some colleagues starting tender, make me doubt that how long can I still survive here. Pray for everything will be smooth.
Recently, craving for a lot of food made me put on weight. Is time to on diet so that I can fit on the beautiful wedding gown.
Life goes on. What I can do is to be stronger.
What was your greatest success in the first six months of the year?
For me, this year definitely a fruitful year. A lot of events happen in this year. Soon, I will be going to enter a new phase of life - get married. This is my dream since I was a kid. For me, the biggest success of a woman is to get married and have few kids, to have own family. I admit I'm a family kind of women and not a strong woman who pursuing in career development.
However, I still make sure that I'm doing my best on my job. I have been working for 3.5 years in my first company. I had leave in Feb and joined my current company. I am grateful that I had passed my probation period one month ago. It is still long journey in learning new knowledge and apply to my job. To be honest, recently has been quite hectic. I hope I can manage well. Some colleagues starting tender, make me doubt that how long can I still survive here. Pray for everything will be smooth.
Recently, craving for a lot of food made me put on weight. Is time to on diet so that I can fit on the beautiful wedding gown.
Life goes on. What I can do is to be stronger.
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
Raining Evening
It was a heavy raining evening today. The wind mostly blew away my umbrella. It's cold and wet. I shall not think anything today and have a good sleep =)
Sunday, April 12, 2015
What's wrong with me
Lately, I found myself have bad temper. I just couldn't control myself and keep throwing temper to my loved one. I knew I shouldn't, but somehow it just happened. Sometimes, I was depressed.
Perhaps, it was because I am too stress on my work. I felt that I can't master well on my new job although I strive hard to improve and adsorb as much as possible but it seems still can't hit my superior's expectation.
Sometimes, I felt lonely stay in Singapore, be apart with my loved one. I have to be independent and to corp with the issues that I face on a day to day basis. I hope I can slow down my pace and enjoy the precious time without thinking or worrying too much for my future or career. But the reality is you just can't stop or slow down if you want to survive in the first world country, the environment will keep pushing you to move forward and achieve a new height.
I felt envy to my friends who can pursue their dreams with doing the thing they like without care about how other people think about you. It takes courage I agreed. I am just not the person who are brave and willing to take risk, I afraid if I made a wrong decision, it will affects my portfolio, I just worry too much about every little things surrounding me, which is not good I knew.
I need to let go of perfect. Nothing is perfect in this world, same goes to human being, I shouldn't control so much and let it be. I have to accept everyone have their strength and weakness. I have to learn shouldn't take life for granted. I have to be grateful. I have to let go the negative thoughts. I need a change!
Just wanted to write down my complicated mindset and refresh my mind. Life goes on, if we can't change the life, we need to change our mind.
Perhaps, it was because I am too stress on my work. I felt that I can't master well on my new job although I strive hard to improve and adsorb as much as possible but it seems still can't hit my superior's expectation.
Sometimes, I felt lonely stay in Singapore, be apart with my loved one. I have to be independent and to corp with the issues that I face on a day to day basis. I hope I can slow down my pace and enjoy the precious time without thinking or worrying too much for my future or career. But the reality is you just can't stop or slow down if you want to survive in the first world country, the environment will keep pushing you to move forward and achieve a new height.
I felt envy to my friends who can pursue their dreams with doing the thing they like without care about how other people think about you. It takes courage I agreed. I am just not the person who are brave and willing to take risk, I afraid if I made a wrong decision, it will affects my portfolio, I just worry too much about every little things surrounding me, which is not good I knew.
I need to let go of perfect. Nothing is perfect in this world, same goes to human being, I shouldn't control so much and let it be. I have to accept everyone have their strength and weakness. I have to learn shouldn't take life for granted. I have to be grateful. I have to let go the negative thoughts. I need a change!
Just wanted to write down my complicated mindset and refresh my mind. Life goes on, if we can't change the life, we need to change our mind.
Saturday, April 26, 2014
It's April
It's almost end of April.
Been slack since Chinese New Year. It's time to continue planning my journey and think about my future. Mission #1 Mastering WordPress. I'll attend a WordPress workshop next week, it's an opportunity to learn a new skillset.
Back from a wonderful Hong Kong trip and now looking forward to Jay Chou's Opus 2 concert on Nov =)
Been slack since Chinese New Year. It's time to continue planning my journey and think about my future. Mission #1 Mastering WordPress. I'll attend a WordPress workshop next week, it's an opportunity to learn a new skillset.
Back from a wonderful Hong Kong trip and now looking forward to Jay Chou's Opus 2 concert on Nov =)
Saturday, January 4, 2014
new year resolution #4: read more
Everyone make a goal-setting for a brand new year, so do I. Read more is one of my resolution among the 12 lists. Went to library yesterday and borrow the first batch of books that I am interested. Seriously, I feel that reading is really important to me, it adds more values to my thinking and impact my behavior/action towards my daily life.
Read. People spend years writing some books but you can read it in a few hours. Reading is one of the best forms of mentorship, you have access to all the knowledge you need. So, please fully utilize your time in reading book instead of Facebook. This is also my resolution #1, minimize the time on browsing FB =)
Reading is everything. Reading makes me feel like I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. Thus, no matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading.
Read. People spend years writing some books but you can read it in a few hours. Reading is one of the best forms of mentorship, you have access to all the knowledge you need. So, please fully utilize your time in reading book instead of Facebook. This is also my resolution #1, minimize the time on browsing FB =)
Reading is everything. Reading makes me feel like I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. Thus, no matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading.
Thursday, January 2, 2014
Welcome 2014!
2014, keep pursuing your dreams! There is still long way to go, but you have to keep on moving and never stop.
Thursday, July 25, 2013
Move On
Yea, back to blog. Had complicated mood recently, have strongly feeling to make some changes on my life. I really hope that the new challenge and motivation will happen. I hope I can make thing happened and redesign my life.
It has been 2 years, is time to move on.
It has been 2 years, is time to move on.
Saturday, March 30, 2013
murmur
It's been a long time, I have disappear from this little space. Less blog post recently due to my laziness and busy in my working. Yea, I know this is just an excuse! Do love to enjoy reading blog than writing blog. hahaha.
Somehow feel that life is difficult, however we need to overcome these obstacle to achieve our dream. Life still go on. Recently, thinking what's my dream? Already used to 9-6 working routine, repeat the same stuff day-by-day, until forgot what's I really want. Am I still need to repeat for fellow 10 years, 20 years , etc...?
What could I do? Should I need a change? How can I upgrade myself? Felt so guilty, still don't have a clear direction although have been live for 20++years.
Just wanna to write out the worries in my mind. Have a nice weekend!
Somehow feel that life is difficult, however we need to overcome these obstacle to achieve our dream. Life still go on. Recently, thinking what's my dream? Already used to 9-6 working routine, repeat the same stuff day-by-day, until forgot what's I really want. Am I still need to repeat for fellow 10 years, 20 years , etc...?
What could I do? Should I need a change? How can I upgrade myself? Felt so guilty, still don't have a clear direction although have been live for 20++years.
Just wanna to write out the worries in my mind. Have a nice weekend!
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Saturday, January 5, 2013
first week of 2013
Not really good things happened within the first week of 2013. Why I said so...
The mirror in my room has broken this afternoon, I seeing the mirror fall down and broken to small pieces of glasses, can't help to hold it on time. Haih, need to spend for new mirror, felt so pity to my little wallet.
Second, don't know what my left eye became swollen on Friday morning. Felt painful when winking, kinda like being punch by someone..lol.. My small eyes getting smaller. Bought myself Optrex eye lotion to washing my eyes twice a day, hopefully this will help. Again, felt pity to my little wallet.
Good luck please follow me!! I need U~
The mirror in my room has broken this afternoon, I seeing the mirror fall down and broken to small pieces of glasses, can't help to hold it on time. Haih, need to spend for new mirror, felt so pity to my little wallet.
Second, don't know what my left eye became swollen on Friday morning. Felt painful when winking, kinda like being punch by someone..lol.. My small eyes getting smaller. Bought myself Optrex eye lotion to washing my eyes twice a day, hopefully this will help. Again, felt pity to my little wallet.
Good luck please follow me!! I need U~
Friday, December 28, 2012
new year resolutions
This is the time of year when people look within themselves and think about how about they want their next year to be better than the last.
So, do you have your New Year resolutions for 2013? I think everyone will do.
For me, in 2012, there's not so much ups and downs in my life. The working routine repeat days-by-days, hence I might need some changes on my dull lifestyle. Maybe getting more socialize and to know more new friends. Since nowadays people used to text, I think it would be important to involve more live conversation among each other right?
And nearly everyone's New Year resolutions list is one related to weight loss or fitness. Yep, so do I. Always sitting at office after lunch make my belly getting bigger. Lol. How can it be just looks like 3 months pregnant, it was so embarrassing while wearing those fit clothes.
On my career, I hope to keep explore myself to gain more knowledge and skills. Leadership maybe? Learn to become a problem solver and try to speak out my thought and opinion. Nonetheless, much more important is to handle well on your own job scope. Hope to improve my English in speaking and daily conversation as it is the most important language in a communication.
Therefore, let's think about it now, don't procrastinate your plans or resolutions. Think about where you want to be in next year and list out the strategies to make sure next year resolution will be success.
Yeah, working for more half day for 2012 on coming Monday. Go out and have fun! It's New Year!
So, do you have your New Year resolutions for 2013? I think everyone will do.
For me, in 2012, there's not so much ups and downs in my life. The working routine repeat days-by-days, hence I might need some changes on my dull lifestyle. Maybe getting more socialize and to know more new friends. Since nowadays people used to text, I think it would be important to involve more live conversation among each other right?
And nearly everyone's New Year resolutions list is one related to weight loss or fitness. Yep, so do I. Always sitting at office after lunch make my belly getting bigger. Lol. How can it be just looks like 3 months pregnant, it was so embarrassing while wearing those fit clothes.
On my career, I hope to keep explore myself to gain more knowledge and skills. Leadership maybe? Learn to become a problem solver and try to speak out my thought and opinion. Nonetheless, much more important is to handle well on your own job scope. Hope to improve my English in speaking and daily conversation as it is the most important language in a communication.
Therefore, let's think about it now, don't procrastinate your plans or resolutions. Think about where you want to be in next year and list out the strategies to make sure next year resolution will be success.
Yeah, working for more half day for 2012 on coming Monday. Go out and have fun! It's New Year!
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| My very fist time for boarding to Redang. A very unforgettable memories in 2012. |
Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.
Sunday, December 9, 2012
welcome december
充满佳节气氛的十二月又来临了
喜欢十二月
因为它是一年的结束
又即将带来新的开始
是时候验收今年目标又没有达成啦
其实 我也忘了今年的目标
所以现在要好好思考和记录下来
以便明年十二月 方便验收成果
大家一起加油吧！
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| 今天得到的小小礼物 =） |
Sunday, November 25, 2012
company team building event 2012
T.G.I.F
23 Nov 2012, my office closed due to annual team building event. Yeah!! no need to work..tee heee..For me, this year would be the most meaningful team building event. We co-operated with NTUC elder cares centre, as a volunteer to play, to have fun and to entertain elderly to make them have a heartwarming memories.
23 Nov 2012, my office closed due to annual team building event. Yeah!! no need to work..tee heee..For me, this year would be the most meaningful team building event. We co-operated with NTUC elder cares centre, as a volunteer to play, to have fun and to entertain elderly to make them have a heartwarming memories.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
First Message
Husband sent a text to wife at night, "Hi babe
I will get late, please try and wash all my dirty clothes and make sure
you prepare my favourite dish before I return."
He sent another text, "Babe I forgot to tell you that I got an increase in my salary at the end of the month I'm getting you a new car"
She text back,"Omg really?"
Husband replied, "No I just wanted to make sure you got my first message."
Haha...just a joke! Such a clever idea...XOXO
Happy Weekend!
He sent another text, "Babe I forgot to tell you that I got an increase in my salary at the end of the month I'm getting you a new car"
She text back,"Omg really?"
Husband replied, "No I just wanted to make sure you got my first message."
Haha...just a joke! Such a clever idea...XOXO
Happy Weekend!
Thursday, November 8, 2012
My Ambros
It's been a while since I last did exercise. I do agree that I'm not such person having sport cells potential, hence sport is a tough for me. Anyway, I make this as my week target, I told myself that need to do at least 30 minutes exercise a week. Well, don't laugh..I know this might be a pretty easy job for you.
The first thing that I need to do is --- purchase a sport shoes. This is the first sport shoes that I really bought for exercise and hope it will give me driving force to determine my plan. Just wanna to show some photo of my sport shoes, well, neither Nike nor Adidas. It just a normal brand, Ambros, RM80 and I'm not that person who keep pursue those branded stuff, comfortable come first. I fall on this sport shoes at my first sight，the design and the color match, is grey and hot pink! I wouldn't choose the white base sport shoes, as it will get dirty easily and I'm so lazy to clean it up. Grey color just suit me, haha!
Yeah, it's time for exercise! Went to gym at last weekend to start my fitness plan, it situated at community club nearby my HDB. This is the first time I go to gym for exercise, I did running for 30minutes and bike for 30minutes. But it may a bit boring for me exercise in a room, keep facing the wall and sport machine only. I decide to go to the park for exercise next time, at least there have the scenery and fresh air.
Mission Completed!!!
The first thing that I need to do is --- purchase a sport shoes. This is the first sport shoes that I really bought for exercise and hope it will give me driving force to determine my plan. Just wanna to show some photo of my sport shoes, well, neither Nike nor Adidas. It just a normal brand, Ambros, RM80 and I'm not that person who keep pursue those branded stuff, comfortable come first. I fall on this sport shoes at my first sight，the design and the color match, is grey and hot pink! I wouldn't choose the white base sport shoes, as it will get dirty easily and I'm so lazy to clean it up. Grey color just suit me, haha!
Mission Completed!!!
The difference between the possible and the impossible lies in a person determination
Sunday, November 4, 2012
週末
周末是一個好好沉澱自己的日子
拋開工作的煩惱 抽離各種生活上的角色
回到真真的自己 輕鬆 釋放 無壓力
我喜歡這種感覺 好久沒這麼自在了
有個舒適的環境 享受一個人的周末
就那麼簡單
拋開工作的煩惱 抽離各種生活上的角色
回到真真的自己 輕鬆 釋放 無壓力
我喜歡這種感覺 好久沒這麼自在了
有個舒適的環境 享受一個人的周末
就那麼簡單
無意間閱讀了一本書
《有些事 現在不做， 一輩子都不會做了》
一本簡單易懂 啟發你去思考的書
它讓我瞬間 有改變自我的勇氣
讓我想停下盲目的腳步 認認真真地去思考
目標 未來 人生 夢想
《有些事 現在不做， 一輩子都不會做了》
一本簡單易懂 啟發你去思考的書
它讓我瞬間 有改變自我的勇氣
讓我想停下盲目的腳步 認認真真地去思考
目標 未來 人生 夢想
其中一頁 它要你回答書中的問題
讓你寫下答案 然后把答案粘在最明顯的角落
讓你所承諾的答案 來激勵你去實現
讓你寫下答案 然后把答案粘在最明顯的角落
讓你所承諾的答案 來激勵你去實現
簡單的問題 但答案卻可以很有深度
希望你們也可以花十分鐘 去思考
改變從現在開始 不拖延
堅持自己的目標 前進吧！
希望你們也可以花十分鐘 去思考
改變從現在開始 不拖延
堅持自己的目標 前進吧！
週末愉快 =)
Monday, October 29, 2012
24th birthday celebration #2
Today I wanna write a blog post still for my birthday celebration. Well I know it has been passed for 2 weeks but I insist to complete it.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
graduation month
Recently when I'm browsing FB, tons of graduation photos flooding on my news feed. I feel glad and would like to say "congratulation" to all of my friends who have graduated in this year. It is not easy for waiting the day coming, a day we wearing the "square hat". We have paid 3-4years effort on our academic, eventually for 1 minute on the stage for receiving our certificate. I think this is a turning point for all of us. I wish all my friends who have just graduated, all the best for your future undertaking!
There is a good reason they call these ceremonies "commencement exercises". Graduation is not the end, it's the beginning.
There is a good reason they call these ceremonies "commencement exercises". Graduation is not the end, it's the beginning.
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| - my graduation on 15 Oct 2011, UPM - |
Sunday, October 14, 2012
24th birthday celebration #1
Time flies. Is my turn to be 24 years old. Actually that's not much difference being 23 or 24 as long as we keep out heart young!!!
Yeah, for this year birthday, we had a pre-birthday dinner. My boy brought me to hotel restaurant. He recommends me the Chinese cuisine which located at Swissotel The Stamford is quite nice. Actually Im not a fine dining lover, I think it's expensive and the food portion quite small. Im ok to go for Chinese cuisine.
We met at City hall after work. Did some light make up, can't really remember when is my latest time for make up.
Yeah, for this year birthday, we had a pre-birthday dinner. My boy brought me to hotel restaurant. He recommends me the Chinese cuisine which located at Swissotel The Stamford is quite nice. Actually Im not a fine dining lover, I think it's expensive and the food portion quite small. Im ok to go for Chinese cuisine.
We met at City hall after work. Did some light make up, can't really remember when is my latest time for make up.
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| learn to put the eye linear |
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